His sis being ill

When his sister was hospitalised for 2 days due to an emergency operation due to a twisted and dead cyst.... we knew from experience never to bring him to the hospital to see her.Eversince his dede being hospitalised and died a couple of months ago.. he had shown a very deep emotional trauma if he ver visit a hospital. It was confirmed when we were in Malaysia...

I had not been home for 2 days....that 2 days... he had stayed at his cousin's place...just in front of our door...till night when his dad came to pick him up home for the nite...

He had shown no emotional distress at all.... acting lke a grown up when my beloved explained to him the situatin at hand... as usual..keeping whatever he felt and thought of to himself..

After his sister was discharged from the hospital.....He tried to ran away from me.... Feeding him his dinner was terrifying... homework time... he wanted my attention... i was unable to make him finish his homework on his own (w had visitors visiting his sis)....him wanting loads of attention from me... yet... running away from me......

After alost two hours.. i finally managed to sweet talk him.. n he did his homewrk while sitting on my laps.... finally surrendering his missing me physically... and finally him finding peace to finish his homework....

Looking back... in the future.... it will be very difficult for people to understand him... to understand his moods... he is not comfortabe telling his inner feelings....will that affect how the teachers will percieve him in the classroom?? hmmm... we will see i suppose...